Miss you one day at the time…
Isn’t ironic, how when you are making decision to leave someone dear in your life, you find million reasons for it…but once you do it, your smart brain shuts of and all you can think is all the nice and good things that you will now miss…It’s like kicking even more already laying on the ground beat up heart…
Just miss someone one day at the time…
Imagine, you’ll meet tomorrow, even though you know you won’t…your brain knows a lot of stuff that your heart is ignoring, so ignore this knowledge too…It is easier to deal with missing someone for a day than every day dealing with knowing you’ll never see them again…
Love is there even if your love object is not…it’s not something you can control or change, but you can control and change how you let it affect you…If you lost someone you love, focus on the love, let it consume you, lift you up….don’t let yourself forget how it feels…it doesn’t matter you can’t be with the one who makes you feel like that, if life took him away, don’t let life take the feeling away…Then a day will come when these wonderful feelings that guided you through days will bring someone into your life, either someone who you missed all this time or someone new, who will double the overwhelming feeling and will never leave you missing them…
When relationships or friendships end we focus on all the things that we are going to miss and on all the pain, looking forward for the day when time will fix it…but the waiting in vein only makes the time go slower…Miss someone one day at the time, feel fully, miss gracefully, look forward….look forward for something that makes you feel that amazing…the time will fly by till the day when you’ll miss less….until the missing will become a beautiful fragment of memory that you’ll be grateful you had in your life…=)
Sincerely,
S.